hi there girls,
i am a big girl too, however, when i start feeling down on myself my wife kim shows me how much love she has for me and all of a sudden i don't feel bad anymore.
kim and i are both a bit big and both of us had lost thirty pounds during our time together. I am a diabetic and rarely ever cheat but cant seem to lose any more weight and i am a lot shorter too so it looks bad (my perception of course). m y baby guarantees me that her "esposa es bella y muy sexy" meaning I am teaching her spanish.
i have always felt down about my bigger frame and over weight status but I am doing what I can to lose, so i don't feel as bad when i do not.
I usually feel and believe I am sexy as hell.
i just don't usually share that with people. that is my affirmation every day when i get up
i look at self and say i am kind and good hearted, i am loveable and i am cute and sexy. i started that years ago and now i believe it too.
hope it works.
Lourdes