To All the Friends we have met and all those we haven't:
After 29 years together Nancy and I will be LEGALLY married on June 28th at 4pm PST.
I wish you could all be there, think about us around that time, our wedding will be a celebration, but we will pause during the service to hold those who cannot yet legally marry in our hearts. Someday, all will be free to marry. A straight friend of mine sent an editorial to the San Jose Mercury News (and it got published!!). She closed with these words:
Marriage is not about race. Marriage is not about gender. Marriage is about love and family. Yours and mine.
May it Be So