Well,
I went to a bar here in the Washington, DC area. I went on New Years Eve, by myself no less. As the clock struck 12, I was about to be in tears until, a hot butch walks up to me and asks me to hold her drink. She was baby sitting a person who'd had to much to drink. So, because I've been told that I don't look approchable I was very suprised she did that. Well anyway, I was eyeing her as soon as she came into the room and I think she knew it. My ex told me, that lesbians give looks and make eye contact to communicate. I don't know juist how true this is but, the fine a.... butch turns back to me and thanked me for holding her drink. But she didn't leave the area. The DJ gave me and all of the single women in the club some help and asked us to raise our hands if we were alone.
Well she gave me a nice hug and kiss on the check to say happy new year. I guess we should put ourselves in the places and situations to be open enough for someone to notice? If you can think of something else, please let me know.
Peace 