If your sure that there is no way for the two of you to reconcile, my first piece of advise for you is take those rings off. I just recently started a relationship and she still wears the ring from her last relationship. She says its b/c she likes the bling but it makes me feel cheap. It makes me feel like she has a bond with this other woman that she doesn't want to break and the ring is a constant reminder. Don't put yourself back on the dating scene until you can heal your heart a little and please don't put another girl in a position that she feels like she needs to live up to the standards of someone else. That is not a good feeling either.

My girlfriend just broke up with me 1 mth after moveing me in. I kinda agree with the split, but it stil hurts. She said she wanted me to be her wife and I was ready for that. How do I get back out there without compareing every girl to her? Also I still am wearing the engagement ring and her class ring, whats the best way to move on completely? I mean so far I'm doin ok, but my heart is still very much broken. I'm not even sure if I'm ready to start dateing again. I mean sure we weren't togeather long but we had a deep and strong connection at least on my end it was, guess not so much on hers.