What type of town/city are you looking for? I feel that there are a lot of places that are pretty open. I live 40 mins N/W of Boston and feel very comfortable in my town. Most of the temples and a lot of different types of churches have rainbow stickers on their signs letting us know they are open to everyone. I really like that fact about my town. I do not belong to any of these but just seeing the stickers is a nice feeling.