she will be ok.....if i listened to my girl I would be broke and would never go anywhere....it is ok to take trips together, but don't feel guilty for wanting to enjoy yourself

I think you are making the right moves.  I think she is probably depressed and you may have to convince her to get some therapy.  You do need friends and so does she although it doesn't sound like she can see that right now.  Continue to look for friends, but I think some counseling is in order...for both of you.

 

Hi my name is Ki and my partner is Kathy we have been together almost 8 years. She has copd which will be terminal we moved to Pa 8 years ago and we have no close friends I have been telling her that I want us  to find some friends we can get close to. I will need this when she passes I don't want to go through it alone. She was diagnosed about 6 years ago which through her into major depression and she wound up getting anxiety alot. She would sooner stay home and do nothing. I feel bad about wanting more and guilt plays a big role in that. I am not looking for a gf I want us to find friends we both can bond with. You have to understand I am very shy we both are and i tell her we can do this together. Last weekend we were suppose to go camping with a group of girls we had never met she got sick and said she was not going I on the other hand said i was taking my grand daughter (8 months old) and we were going. Don't get me wrong this was so hard and scary but I did it. Now she is upset that I went. She said she would not have gone without me. I am in a rut and I don't know how to get out of it. Believe me this is a long story!!!! so if you have questions ask me but right now i need help!!!! thanks   Ki