Hi Shy and Pinky,

My advice.....take your time.  No need to rush. 

Shy, if you feel you still need to wear your rings for awhile, go ahead..... but guaranteed, eventually, one day, you'll put them away and will not feel the need to wear them anymore.  For now they are comforting....so just take your time.

Moving on is a journey as I wrote in another post.  It is a process and one that usually takes time....Take things at your own pace.  Listen to your heart.  Keep busy, create new relationships and try to enjoy life.  You only get one. 

Be careful of those who you begin relationships with who are still clinging in some way to a past relationship.  This means that they are still in the healing process and this can bring other issues into your relationship that you were not necessarily planning on dealing with. 

Don't be afraid to love again.  It can be wonderful.  Good luck to you both.

Tami 

If your sure that there is no way for the two of you to reconcile, my first piece of advise for you is take those rings off. I just recently started a relationship and she still wears the ring from her last relationship. She says its b/c she likes the bling but it makes me feel cheap. It makes me feel like she has a bond with this other woman that she doesn't want to break and the ring is a constant reminder. Don't put yourself back on the dating scene until you can heal your heart a little and please don't put another girl in a position that she feels like she needs to live up to the standards of someone else. That is not a good feeling either.

My girlfriend just broke up with me 1 mth after moveing me in. I kinda agree with the split, but it stil hurts. She said she wanted me to be her wife and I was ready for that. How do I get back out there without compareing every girl to her? Also I still am wearing the engagement ring and her class ring, whats the best way to move on completely? I mean so far I'm doin ok, but my heart is still very much broken. I'm not even sure if I'm ready to start dateing again. I mean sure we weren't togeather long but we had a deep and strong connection at least on my end it was, guess not so much on hers.