If you are romantic like you say,,,you will have to show it...she's probably waiting for you to do that...take her hand and tell her how you feel. A really good ice breaker is a foot rub those are WONDERFUL and very sensual...and that leads ......

Maybe the problem is that you are not over your cheating ex....you really can't give yourself to someone when someone else owns the biggest part of what you have!! I know cause i have been cheated on several times (must have a sticker on my forehead..lol) and i tried to have a relationship with the most wonderful woman i let go but i was not over my ex and it just wouldn't work. I could have had it all but i just tried to jump in too soon....believe me when i say it is in your best interest for you to get through your feelings with your ex before you try and have another relationship...it sounds corny but you really must finish one before you start another.....you want to give all you got not just what is left in the new relationship or it will never work.....sorry sure you didn't want me to preach but this is my opinion....hope it gets better!!! Only you know what camake you happy and you must teach yourself before you can become the teacher about your feelings...sex is simple!!

 

Jax-pack

I am in a relationship with someone who is very good to me but we can't seem to connect sexually. I am a romantic and she is totally opposite. I don't want to have to be a teacher to my girlfriend. I have never been with a butch that doesn't know what or how to make me feel the way I like. I guess my true heart is with my ex but I had to let her go due to her lies and cheating online while I was sleeping or at work.

Please tell me what I can do. I am to old to be a teacher.