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what do i do about my soulmate?

Last post 05/25/2008, 3:18 PM by Crusher. 1 replies.
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Crusher
Joined: 05/24/2008
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Re: what do i do about my soulmate?
05/25/2008, 3:18 PM

I have read in a book, "Eat, Love, Pray" (the author escapes me at the moment)... that your soulmate isn't necessarily the one you will spend your life with.  That they are the person who shows you who you really are, kicks you in the butt, shakes your life up and then moves on... Living with them is too hard, as they are a mirror and sometimes we don't like the reflection they show us about ourselves.

Keeping her in your life will have its benefits, however, I don't know if "getting together" will.   You are in control of where you go and how you think.  I would be really cautious if she is currently with someone else and is telling you that you all have a future.  Seems like she is just creating a safety net for herself, not a security blanket for you.

A quote to think about:

"True Love isn't finding the right person, it is building the right relationship."

 Not sure who wrote it, but it makes perfect sense to me.

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jackalsrule2147
Joined: 01/21/2008
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what do i do about my soulmate?
01/20/2008, 10:03 PM

well to start it off. have been with ex girlfriend for 5 years going on 6. we have been dating since we were in high school. we both are so deeply in love. well i have only had one relationship in my life and i was turning 21 and wanted to see what other love is like. so i left my girlfriend of 5 years forsomeone else. the new relationship worked and she got into another one as well. well my new one only lasted about 4 or 5 months but hers continued. well still talked trying to fix us and get back together. but she told me that by the end of 2007 we will be back together. but it is 2008 and 9 months since we have been broken up and we are still not together. we still talk and she still says that we have a future. i just dont know if i can believe it. she says to wait for her and she will be back, but how long am i supposed to wait. months, years or what. i cant believe she hasnt come back. i know deep down she is my soulmate and she thinks the same. we were supposed to get married and have a family and everything. but now i dont see it happening. i just wish i knew what to do. to sit around and wait for her. or move on. someone tell me what to do!!

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