Yes I have advice, A little late, however better late than never. (1) I personally don't feel that it's that important to come out to your family or friends, it's not like you've decided to bring home a new matriarch for the family and you need their approval. Gay only applies to who you sleep and share with, and that's personal. You'll probably still have the same job, live in the same home and even drive the same car. I'm sure when they go out and sleep with someone they don't come home bring the family together and say, hey, I'm gonna sleep with this Guy, and I want your approval because this is what I want.
From experience, most family members say their alright with it, but they r always trying to figure out ways to change you, how they can help you heal or something. (2) Same with your friends, If you want to know how they will react, mention on girls night out, that you want to go to a Gay Club, if they scream no way, they are closed minded and not worth the drama that comes with there narrow mindedness. (3) Check my profile, I'm a second time around a really late bloomer but love is what love does, so I do women. That's what I love, And that's why !od put us here on this earth to Love.
Tootles!!