as the member who started this lovely discussion, i thought i'd check back and say, WELCOME ABOARD!!!! 
so far, you've been introducing yourselves, sharing a bit about your relationship challenges and your histories. wow, i am amazed at the stories shared here.
now that we're all here, i want to ask you: what do we want this group to be about? here we are, attracted to all that olivia offers, what picture shall we paint on this 'blank canvas'????
i think i mentioned before that i am a relationship coach! in fact, i am a relationship coach for LESBIAN singles and couples. so, i am intrigued by the subject of woman-woman love, romance, and relationships.
i want to thank olivia for bringing us together...so, my question is...FOR WHAT????? Again, this listserv is for us, so, how can we use it well?
xoxoxo,
babz