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Dear OWLS,
I'm new to coming out. In fact, the only person I've told is my mother. I'm 44 and have always lived a straight lifestyle. I divorced last year because I was tired of pretending to be somebody I wasn't. My mother was very understanding and she loves me no matter what. My question is how do I ease into a gay lifestyle? I'm in a profession that would frown on being gay, so is it selfish to seek a relationship that "flies under the radar"? Any advice is welcome. Thanks!