Hi Wannatravel, the ships crew post a daily list of activities in your room or just outside from Olivia, which lets you know what's happening, where and what time. The solos sit together at meal times so you may hear/be invited along to different things. There is a meet n greet for the solos for the first few days so we all know who we are. The shows we have solo seats so we are never alone. We get Dog Tags so we can spot one another. One excursion each day has been designated for solos so you won't be alone their either if you choose them. The solo trips are marked at the end of the info on the Holland America site. There are always Olivia staff in reception who will guide you and we have a designated Solo Olivia person. Just turn up, relax and have fun. Jackie