Hello Sharyn, it may be kinder to tell you to pull out, don't go near, never enjoy the Olivia experience...I just returned from my first cruise on the Western caribbean and I have already booked this one. The other women are right its a bit like getting crack and you just want more. They are fun, friendly, always something to do, idylic surroundings and a boat load of women. You have no idea what you are letting yourselves in for. So book go with the flow and enoy, it won't be your LAST.