This was originally posted by hiho322 on the community forum.
Finally, finally FINALLY, a show I can relate to! My girlfriend and I have been together for over 16 years and are both feminine and pretty (but tough) and have had a hard time finding women our age (mid-late 40's) that accept us for who we are. We've gotten many questions from other lesbians like: "So who's the guy?" which absolutely shocked us. We thought by this point in time that lesbians - and straights - would understand that there are so many variations and you don't have to follow the hetero model if you don't want to. I am a singer/songwriter/actress living in NYC and I totally identify with all the women in The L-Word, even though I'm a bit older than they are. They're beautiful and smart and not afraid to be themselves. And I love the fact that they're not overly political, and that they have fun (breaking yet another stereotype). It's not only gay men who have a good time, and this show proves that. And, oh, by the way, I had a group of buddies (all lesbians) in the mid-80's who were all like the girls on the show. We had a blast!